Games

[Bunny]

I feel like all the fun is getting sucked out of each and every game on this site. Mafia is after all a game, which is supposed to be fun and enjoyable. But I think a lot of people are turning it into a fight every game and making it become lame with their personal rules and ways of playing. I think everyone could definitly try and bring fun back into it and stop critizsing everyone and being rude and just try and make it more enjoyable! What do ya all think!

[creedkingsx]

Competitive is as competitive does. :P
This has nothing to do with me at all, I'm sure of it. lol

[Bunny]

Competitive is as competitive does. :P
This has nothing to do with me at all, I'm sure of it. lol

No it doesnt! i dont mean competitive! i mean like people yelling at you for making a mistake they you dont view as a mistake! people thinking theyre better than everyone and need to show it kinda thing.

[creedkingsx]

So like the end of M-FM Halo 2, lol

[NoctiZ]

I think I would have to agree that it feels more like a competition than a game. It's actually a bit stressful to play because I need to have a clear mind if I want to not make a mistake, but I can't have fun like that. Anyway, I agree with Bunny. Less rudeness, more encouraging, everyone!

[Bunny]

i find it happens in almost every game! for instance a night actions shows up and you didnt do what someone said they will cirtizise you for being stupid or a moron. Its just a game and peopel take it to seriously, you should be able to play without beig insulted.

[creedkingsx]

The problem is the people this site originally attracted were highly intelligent and sharp minded people. People like this tend to be anti-social and uncaring for others. Just seeking a means to prove their intelligence over other people they potentially respected for their intelligence. The idea of teaching other people to do something you've grown accustomed to and have competed in so thoroughly leads to a development of behavior that creates dispute with people who can't stand on the same skill level. Even Damus and I, who are like the nicest of the experienced, excluding some people here for sake of simplicity; get aggressive to people for their mistakes sometimes through frustration, regardless of the fact that we were their at one point in our career here on the site.

[Ash]

The problem is the people this site originally attracted were highly intelligent and sharp minded people. People like this tend to be anti-social and uncaring for others. Just seeking a means to prove their intelligence over other people they potentially respected for their intelligence. The idea of teaching other people to do something you've grown accustomed to and have competed in so thoroughly leads to a development of behavior that creates dispute with people who can't stand on the same skill level. Even Damus and I, who are like the nicest of the experienced, excluding some people here for sake of simplicity; get aggressive to people for their mistakes sometimes through frustration, regardless of the fact that we were their at one point in our career here on the site.

lol. calling yourself smart? Not all "smart" people insult others because they feel like it. Me, yayap, raiden, myself, illidan, and i are good examples. your theory is likely but it's not always accurate. imo sometimes it's okay to call someone dumb if it everyone else saw something that that person didn't see. also did I mention yet that i'm a good example of a nice smart player? im the best.

There's also nonsmart people that insult others because they feel like it.

[creedkingsx]

lol. calling yourself smart? Not all "smart" people insult others because they feel like it. Me, yayap, raiden, myself, illidan, and i are good examples. your theory is likely but it's not always accurate. imo sometimes it's okay to call someone dumb if it everyone else saw something that that person didn't see. also did I mention yet that i'm a good example of a nice smart player? im the best.

There's also nonsmart people that insult others because they feel like it

Yayap is not a good example.

Even if I KNEW someone was an idiot, I would figure it's not best to call them on it until after the game. After all, apparent idiocy could be deciding a wifom differently.

Glad to know you're not offended with all of my questions Damus.

During the game is the best time to call someone an idiot. It was my playstyle for a bit of time, I consider the CmG playstyle, to rag on people. They knew I didn't necessarily mean it, just the face I put on to prevent meta on myself.

back to OP topic

what does OP mean

and other people have taken the game to just troll, and calling people names gives them a kick out of it.

This topic is specifically talking about Forum Mafia, not just SC2mafia. Etiquette is generally set at a higher bar in FM.

Also I would suggest bugging the veteran players with questions xD
{I bugged the shit outta yayap and cmg for several days/weeks asking some questions and for their advice in situations.}

I agree with this, very much so. It's easier to be nice to people when you see they are actually trying to improve themselves.

[Ash]

Yayap is not a good example.

i dont remember much about yayap's play now because he mostly hosts. i dont really remember the last time he insulted anybody. He argues, but that doesnt mean he insults others.

[creedkingsx]

i dont remember much about yayap's play now because he mostly hosts. i dont really remember the last time he insulted anybody. He argues, but that doesnt mean he insults others.

In general, yayap enjoys telling people of their flaws.
And I am talking about the "nonsmart" comment.

Moreover, the statement you underlined in my comment said, "experienced," not smart.

[Cryptonic]

I don't even mind ppl calling me dumb, because most the time i'm right anyways lol.

During the game is the best time to call someone an idiot. It was my playstyle for a bit of time, I consider the CmG playstyle, to rag on people. They knew I didn't necessarily mean it, just the face I put on to prevent meta on myself.

Also, CmG playstyle LOL in Halo 2 he said he would bully my irl if he knew me LOLOLOL i was dyin' irl from laughter.

[Damus_Graves]

I really am sorry if I had made people feel this way in a lot of the games I have played.
I don't mean to at all, I'm just frustrated.
I sorry

[Bunny]

Well you an damus both make mistakes and I rarely see people call yu guys stupid for them! And calling some one dumb isn't teaching them anything it's just being mean! I jut think everyone can out in a little more effort to calm down and remember to be nice and have fun! We don't need to scare away new and old members for no reason!

Don't be sorry damus ! We all just need to be kinder!

[creedkingsx]

I think that's the nicest thing you've said to damus since before CJ 1.0 got deleted. lol

(no bearing on the conversation at hand, just funny.) xD

[Damus_Graves]

I think that's the nicest thing you've said to damus since before CJ 1.0 got deleted. lol

Truthfully I think Yayap's FM Tips and Tricks thread needs to be pushed up again. I'm not sure but I don't think many of the newcomers have seen/read it yet.

@RLVG
A change would require the players to learn more patience and for the newer players to read the posted above ^^^

[NoctiZ]

Truthfully I think Yayap's FM Tips and Tricks thread needs to be pushed up again. I'm not sure but I don't think many of the newcomers have seen/read it yet.

@RLVG
A change would require the players to learn more patience and for the newer players to read the posted above ^^^

I can tell you that I have read the Tips and Tricks thread and some more, read some FMs before I entered one myself, too.

[creedkingsx]

I can tell you that I have read the Tips and Tricks thread and some more, read some FMs before I entered one myself, too.

You have shown to be one of the better new players. No offense to the other new players.

[NoctiZ]

You have shown to be one of the better new players. No offense to the other new players.

Hah, that's a good step towards a nicer community.

[RLVG]

I agree, being friendly goes a long way.
Let's give an example that you've said something mean, would you like that someone said the same thing to you?

The issue is competive, usualy it goes between the line of everything.
Solution would be to keep the competition while remaining social and friendly. Possible, but personalities would have to change.



TLDR : I agree but how can this change?

[creedkingsx]

While it is true that Positive reinforcement works significantly better than Negative Punishment, it's easier to fall to the latter because it is more satisfying to people to want to yell at each other for their mistakes.
In another sense, it is generally expected that people are to "suck it up," so to speak.

[Bunny]

People should explain things in games that were dumb instead of calling people dumb! Some people, like myself, are more emotional than logical thinkers, I see things differently in games and act upon that. It's not stupid it just means they will see certain things as a good idea and a more logical person wouldn't.

[Damus_Graves]

Also I would suggest bugging the veteran players with questions xD
{I bugged the shit outta yayap and cmg for several days/weeks asking some questions and for their advice in situations.}

[Bunny]

Also I would suggest bugging the veteran players with questions xD
{I bugged the shit outta yayap and cmg for several days/weeks asking some questions and for their advice in situations.}

Yu have been a lil nicer to me to kudos to you

[Titus]

Well I hope I never offend someone like that. I think people must realize that every brings to the table their own sets of assumptions. Yet, I never felt insulted for doing the wrong thing. Perhaps maybe people should wait until after the game before forming the opinion that the person was an idiot. If they still had that opinion, perhaps that matter is best resolved via private message.

Yes, I do have to agree (obviously out of FM/SFMs) that teaching others can be frustrating. Dealing with others who have decision making powers who act like idiots is frustrating. However, the ones I see in the real world are much worse than any mafia game. Even if I KNEW someone was an idiot, I would figure it's not best to call them on it until after the game. After all, apparent idiocy could be deciding a wifom differently.

Glad to know you're not offended with all of my questions Damus.

[Damus_Graves]

I also feel like a big portion of this problem is between players who get deep into the game, such as myself, and players who play it as a fling.
There just seems, imo, to be this different level of care that brings out a lot of frustration within players, such as myself.
{I've spent a huge majority of FM16's night phases arguing with myself about people's scumminess, night choices, and their posts and how it works with a town viewpoint vs a scum one.}

Yu have been a lil nicer to me to kudos to you

[Slaol]

I second everything Bunny is saying here.

I think my play in games should be a testament that enjoyment comes before competitiveness. I talk MVPs, but I am more focused on making every game I play memorable than actually walking away with a badge. Dat Acnologia claim. lol. And oh my god the game I had planned before modkills in s-fm Data. Lolz were so inbound.

[Voss]

back to OP topic

what does OP mean

and other people have taken the game to just troll, and calling people names gives them a kick out of it.

[Admiral]

At first I trolled for the lulz.

Then when I saw how easy it was I trolled to see what I could get away with.

Then I went full asshat and just stole/leaked donor codes and shit.

I like being off topic.

[Lazers]

Yeah, I got modkilled in a FM for getting into a heated argument with a giant font, red text, and multiple expletives

Shitty games would not play

[suicidaln00b]

https://www.sc2mafia.com/forum/showthread.php/2291-Day-III-Unknown-Fate/page22

laughing

[TheDarkestLight]

I have a feeling this is directed towards me...

[Bunny]

I have a feeling this is directed towards me...

It's directed towards everyone!! Of yu feel guilty of this in any way then change that!

[Jim]

It's directed towards everyone!! Of yu feel guilty of this in any way then change that!

I am pro and need to change nothing.

[Ash]

I am pro and need to change nothing.

same. +repped

[RozenMaiden]

Acknowledged.
Approve.