Have you ever heard the tragedy of Darth Jar Jar the wise?
Rotholfo said only once that you "should talk to someone about it", and then only said you had anger management issues... after you had called him an idiot and a moron thirce.
Although the host was mistaken on the quits (and yet had legitimate reasons to believe Jan had quit because of personal attacks), he remained civil. To handle this situation, you should have simply spoken against it and go in FM Reports & Appeals after the game to make sure your point was heard instead of personally attacking the host.
However, about the off-site conversations pertaining to on-site activities, you are absolutely right that there is a coherence issue there. I understand that it's easy for me to say this now that it's a past issue, but I'll say it anyway: death threats are absolutely unacceptable, and their author should have been permabanned immediatly. Unless there is opposition to this, I think the site rules should be updated to reflect that off-site conversations between members of Sc2 Mafia are also under the site rules to avoid this kind of confusion. It's only logical to do so, and it's already how it works for out-of-game communication anyway. And for what it's worth to you, I'm genuinely sorry that you had to deal with that.
For me it's not so much the punishment- I could understand an infraction or a short term game ban IF a player expressed disdain over banana's play (of which, correct me if I'm wrong, I did not see any)
I am worried about the lack of internal communication from the FM admins about this affair. We have received 3 completely contradictory statements coming from the 4 staff who made this decision.
The accusations of having made those players quit are wrong, and they have indeed not been taken into account in the punishment; Ganelon acted without prior discussion with the rest of the staff, and his calls are NOT the official ones. Sorry for the confusion caused by this.
However, it isn't because Jan didn't quit the game because of Banana in the end that Banana's actions are alright. It's just that he's not being punished for having made him quit because that didn't happen. There was no contradiction between what I said and what AIVION posted.
Isn't the point of punishing anyone in FM to make them acknowledge that their behavior is problematic and that it has made the game unenjoyable for other players? As someone who has played a lot of FM in the past with Banana, they have grown a ton in FM games (as we all have, let's be honest) and feel like punishing them here is nothing else but satisfying someone who was personally insulted (Not saying that it's okay, but I would be annoyed too if I was Banana).
I haven't actually seen anyone complain about how Banana's comments made the game unplayable or unenjoyable... From what I understand, you guys said yourselves that Banana was not guilty of making anyone leave the game. So what is the punishment really accomplishing?
FM is a frustrating game. People will get mad, people will get frustrated and use emotion to sway people to follow them. I personally have faked emotion as scum to get people to listen to me, and I've never once been told that my play was problematic. The community is meant to grow, and I feel like Banana has definitely done that over the years.
I have trouble tying duck's situation here, only because I wasn't around for it and don't know the details. I don't even know that @aamirus has been here for it. Do we need to bring in Brendan or something to tip the scale, or can we drop whatever Duck did?
FM XVII: Bonney Jewelry (Journalist)
FM XVIII: Kalou (Savage Godfather)
FM XX: Joseph Bertrand (Marshall)
FM XXI: USA (Escort)
FM XV: Whiskey (Whore)
Thanks for your input. I did receive a punishment for rage quitting Black Flag
Rage quitting and "being generally toxic" isn't even the same thing though. I purposely played this game with my previous punishment in mind, making sure not to commit the same mistake.
Originally Posted by BananaCucho
The only reason I bring it up is because I have been involved in 3 situations with off-site insults/attacks
Twice as the attacker, once as the attacked
No matter the situation, I am always on the losing end of the decision by staff
That was 4 years ago so I wont talk about it further
Originally Posted by BananaCucho
FM XVII: Bonney Jewelry (Journalist)
FM XVIII: Kalou (Savage Godfather)
FM XX: Joseph Bertrand (Marshall)
FM XXI: USA (Escort)
FM XV: Whiskey (Whore)
So the implication here is that if the players had specifically said Banana was why they quit, Banana would have been punished more?
Ganelon's opinion that Rotholfo was egging on Banana no longer matters? Can you shed some more light as to how that decision was reached? I know my opinion here isn't the one that matters but to me it definitely looks like that was a two way street.
And yes, there is definitely contradiction within your posts.
BOTH of these statements say that Lois was in the wrong here. Yet you still submit proof against Banana about him calling Lois a twat after he leaves?
I mean, fuck it, that guy was totally being a twat.
There are no offended parties here that the FM administration believes were either justified in leaving the game (according to the official statment from AIVION) or are pushing for Banana's punishment here. I still don't understand what warrants this punishment.
Edit: Or is it just because of Banana's "appeal" thread
I count at least 3 posts after I decided to ignore Rotholo where he personally attacked me and my "anger issues" TRYING to goad and bait me back into insulting him more. How is that not toxic?
And instead of slandering me for 2 weeks Gan should have kept his mouth shut. Yet I am the one punished for not using the subforum, while he is not, even tho you guys love to preach that staff should be held to a higher standard.
Originally Posted by BananaCucho
I think I'm done with this guys. I've said my piece, appealed, yada yada. There really isn't much more to say, MM isn't budging it seems and I don't think that anything is gonna change that.
So whatever.
Originally Posted by BananaCucho
I'm all for private messages being private but if someone is being a turd burglar to someone that relates to the forums it does blur the line. It inevitably finds its way creeping back to the forums.
That's just a personal opinion, not a staff opinion.
FM XVII: Bonney Jewelry (Journalist)
FM XVIII: Kalou (Savage Godfather)
FM XX: Joseph Bertrand (Marshall)
FM XXI: USA (Escort)
FM XV: Whiskey (Whore)
Personally, (and I know this might look like a flipflop to the fm staff with regards to this position, but hey i'm human and i'm thinking about stuff) if people want to cuss each other out in discord pms, fucking have at it. But if it's on discord sc2mafia public channels, or these forums, staff should step in.
FM XVII: Bonney Jewelry (Journalist)
FM XVIII: Kalou (Savage Godfather)
FM XX: Joseph Bertrand (Marshall)
FM XXI: USA (Escort)
FM XV: Whiskey (Whore)
Strictly on the subject of the current infraction system, I actually totally agree with you on it aamirus. I’ve been trying to figure out what things to borrow from the erm, Arcade report system and I think we should change it along those lines. That’s my opinion as a player, not as staff.
Anyway, I will not involve myself in this as I think it’s bad for everyone involved. So folks, if you have any concerns, address them to one of the other staff.
Anyways. Some of you are prolly wondering about the little OoO fuck up with the coroner. I remembered the Coroner acting before the disguised in the OoO, and didn’t bother to check. AIVION asked me if she could post Jans alignment reveal and I said yes. The reason I’m mentioning this is because I don’t want AIVION (who was quite busy when I hosted this game) to be blamed for it. It is totally my fault for not checking the OoO. AIVION helped quite a bit in spite of how busy she was.
A bit late to be posting this but I guess better late than never.
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I have only read the post game. I just want to make one very specific point. You claim BC has a "serious issue with toxicity going back years on the site".
As someone who probably played and watched 10s of games with BC before his break, I personally never witnessed anything to suggest that was the case. He is certainly argumentative, but no "serious toxic issues". In fact, he was quite respected by the contemporary community, and the players he had issues with were the players that did struggle with toxicity issues and most the community already had an issue with, as far as I can remember.
Other players who were around at the time are free to correct me, but I doubt they'd have anything different to say.
You can think what you want, i reviewed his infraction history before I posted. And I was simply suggesting that fm staff COULD have referenced some of that history in the punishment post to show that it’s not just the single ragequit, and help justify why an offense here would merit a harsher punishment
Have you ever heard the tragedy of Darth Jar Jar the wise?
Like 2 games ago?
Have you ever heard the tragedy of Darth Jar Jar the wise?
Again, I don't see how a rage quit should matter here. If I rage quit this game, sure. Or if I was warned/punished for toxicity last game, also sure. But I don't have a recent history of being punished for being toxic, so a 2 game ban for that offense here is harsh, especially when the worst they are quoting is "moron", "idiot", and "twat-Nick"
Originally Posted by BananaCucho
Fine. We have different definitions of toxic. Fine. Whatever.
Originally Posted by BananaCucho