Spoiler : Forum Mafia :
Half the time it sounds like he's saying "Gay Ban"
The other half of the time it sounds like he's saying "Bengay"
Intellectual growth comes from discussions, not arguments. If you are unwilling to change your position and hear the other persons side you are closed minded and wasting your time.
If you can not clearly explain what the other sides reasoning is you can not disagree with their position because you do not understand it.